I wasn’t sure where to start with this post, but I knew it needed to be written. Fear has been woven into my story for as long as I can remember. If we allow it, fear can quietly cripple us—it can take our legs right out from under us and convince us that what we long for is forever out of reach. Most of us will face fear at some point in our lives, and for some of us, it feels like a constant companion. When fear becomes overwhelming, it hinders growth, connection, courage, and even our willingness to trust God with the deeper parts of our hearts. It silences our voices and keeps us from fully living the lives He desires for us. Maybe you’re asking the same questions I’ve asked: What do I do with this fear? Can I really move beyond it? Does it have to define me? If that’s you, I want you to know this—you don’t have to live bound by crippling fear. I believe God meets us in these tender places. I believe healing is possible. And I believe that as we learn to bring our fears to Him and walk through them with grace, we begin to find freedom. Little by little, we discover courage, connection, and a deeper trust in His presence—learning to live fully, even when the journey feels hard.
  When I first read the words, “Do not fear,” I almost smiled to myself. I thought, What do you mean, do not fear? Fear can feel so deeply human. Some fears come naturally, woven into our vulnerability and experiences. And yet, there are other fears—the kind that quietly settle in—that can cause us to stand still when God is gently calling us forward.
So often, we hesitate because we worry about how others will perceive the gifts God has placed inside us. We may hold back, shrink our voices, or even bury what He has entrusted to us, simply because the weight of human opinion feels heavy. Hurtful words can linger, and rejection can feel costly. I understand that. But in those moments, we are invited to remember whose voice matters most. Scripture reminds us, Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe” (Proverbs 29:25).
Have you ever felt torn between God’s calling and man’s judgment? It’s that sacred tension—feeling God’s purpose burning in your heart while simultaneously fearing how it might look through human eyes. Yet God gently whispers, For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7). He also promises, So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God” (Isaiah 41:10).
Take a quiet moment and consider this: What man has ever laid down his life so that you could truly live? Jesus reminds us of the depth of His love in John 15:13, Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” When we remember the cross, perspective begins to shift. The One who called you is the same One who equips you—and His approval will always outweigh every opinion. Let that truth settle into your heart today. You are seen, you are loved, and you were created on purpose, for purpose.

I want to share something tender from a creative place in my heart. There is a unique kind of fear that comes with putting something you’ve created into the world. Suddenly it feels exposed—open to opinions, interpretations, and criticism—and that can be deeply intimidating. This is especially true for me with my poetry. Sharing it makes me feel incredibly vulnerable. I wonder if people will miss the deeper message behind my words. I wonder if they’ll like it, or if it will feel “good enough.” Those thoughts can be hard to quiet. Truthfully, every blog I publish takes courage. Even after I post, I find myself questioning—Did I say it well? Did I capture what the Lord wanted me to share? And then I return to the why behind my writing. I write because it’s part of how I heal, how I connect, and how I offer hope. I write because God placed something in my heart that longs to be expressed. And even when fear whispers loudly, I’m learning to trust that obedience matters more than perfection, and that if even one person feels seen, encouraged, or reminded they are not alone, then it’s worth every vulnerable moment. Here are my why’s:

1). I want someone to feel less alone.

2). It helps my mental health to hash out how I’m feeling through my writing. 3). Writing feels like my safe space.  I feel like I do a lot of venting through my writing.

4). I really enjoy sharing my gift to write with others even when I feel hesitant.

So, those are just a few.  As a creative who is afraid to put their work out there; think about why you want to do it. What is the driving force behind sharing it? Who do you think could benefit from hearing it, reading it, or seeing it? After that is establish let that be the reason you keep doing it. Healthy fear does not harm us. There will always be a healthy amount of fear. That type of fear does not paralyze you, it is just there. It does not hinder you, it is almost as if you acknowledge it and you keep going. You know it’s there, it almost feels like a natural fear. It’s when fear is fuel with negative thinking and self-sabotage that it becomes harmful to who you’re striving to be.  It’s when it starts to overwhelm your life that it is not good for you.

There is freedom waiting for you on the other side of crippling fear. Not a freedom that means fear disappears, but a freedom that teaches you how to move forward even while your hands are shaking. Sometimes obedience looks like taking the next small step when everything in you wants to stay still. Sometimes it means choosing trust when certainty feels far away. If God is stirring something in your heart, it isn’t a risk—it’s an invitation. And even when others don’t understand, you can rest in knowing that He is with you and well pleased. You are not weak for feeling afraid. You are human. And you are brave every time you choose to keep going anyway. So if today all you can do is “do it afraid”, let that be enough. You are not alone in this journey. Many of us are learning, step by step, how to loosen fear’s grip and walk in faith together. May you feel seen, known, and deeply loved right where you are—and may you find comfort in knowing that on the other side of crippling fear, there truly is freedom. Thank you for showing up in this space with me. I hope you will stay a while, kick your shoes off, and relax in the beauty of the light.
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